imageI’m a single mother of 18 year old twins, had when I was too young.  One likes me, one doesn’t.  I’m not sure I like either of them. Their dad sucks and I don’t have much to do with him and neither do they.  I’m single, divorced twice and done with that for a while. I love my dog. She keeps me sane most days.  I  am a counselor and full time employee of a university in the Midwest. It feels a lot like working in the movie “The Office”. I’d much rather write and curse but no one cares.  I want to write about everything, but especially the things no one really talks about out loud.  I really enjoy the truth.  Ugly, uncomfortable and raw truth.


  1. lameadventures · February 18, 2013

    Thanks for the follow. Why’s October 13, 2013 The Big Day? Are you planning to run in the Chicago marathon — maybe burn off a little steam?

    • Forty-Eleven-Years · February 19, 2013

      Well, thank you for the follow. I’m not planning on running any marathons this year – although it would probably do me some good, but I’d have no writing energy. October 13 is my kids 18th birthday…I know, it sounds horrible, and well is, but I’m really looking forward to that! (FYI my kids, nor any family are aware of this blog)

  2. victoriadougherty · March 15, 2013

    Thanks for the follow. What a great title to a blog! Well done.

  3. candidcoma · March 25, 2013

    Thanks for the follow!
    I feel we may have a lot in common 😀


    • Honestly. · March 25, 2013

      Thank YOU for the follow! I do believe we are similar. I really appreciate other truth tellers.

  4. xtrememom · March 26, 2013

    I’m loving your blog. Congrats!! I’ve nominated you for a Leibster Award.

    Here’s the link…


    • Honestly. · March 26, 2013

      Wow, I’m honored! Thank you so very much. I will get right to it when I’m done with this stupid, time consuming work thing. Yuck.
      Really? I appreciate it so much! I thought no body cared about my bitching rants but me 🙂

      • xtrememom · March 26, 2013

        We’re definitely on the same page. Rant #gazillion!

        I’m glad to meet you, virtually.

        Carry on, Momma!! 🙂

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